New trends are developing when it comes to separation strategies with kids. When a separation happens, it’s common for one parent to move into a new home or apartment that can accommodate both them and their children. However, in today’s [&he...
It’s not uncommon for me to hear that a new client feels their spouse is a narcissist. Divorce is challenging in any circumstance but this one can take the cake in terms of conflict and emotional exhaustion. Whether your partner […]...
The common reasons women consider divorce Are you feeling curious about how other women view their relationship About whether your reasons for marital dissatisfaction are common or even reasonable Many clients come to me feeling unhappy and confused ...
The Enneagram The Enneagram is a personality typing system based on ancient wisdom that postulates that there are nine fundamental ways to be in the world. Unlike other theories of personality, The Enneagram focuses on what motivates individuals inst...
Psychologists and feminist scholars have long studied how males and females are socialized to communicate differently. In the same way that communication gender traps can hurt women at work, in relationships, and in leadership positions, they also de...
Those family decal stickers for your rear car window were all the rage when I went through my divorce. I remember proudly displaying one that matched my family’s status – a barbequing dad, a mom with shopping bags, two happy […]...
Coping with divorce mediation stress Manage your expectations Often your experience of a difficult situation is impacted by your expectations going into it. Checking your expectations about how other parties will act, how you will react, and th...
Running a gauntlet might conjure up images of being judged and tortured from all angles as you work your way towards a goal. While the divorce mediation process doesn’t have to be torture, many of my divorce coaching clients identify […]...
This article is dedicated to those of you who enjoy the Myers Briggs Personality Test (MBTI®) as much as I do. Looking at how Myers Briggs and divorce intersect has been an interesting project. I first took the test in my teens [&hel...
This one is all about telling your spouse you want a divorce. Ask Divorce Coach is Women’s Divorce Coach’s divorce advice column. Have a question Send it to Cindy here. It’s anonymous! Dear Divorce Coach, I’ve been married for a...
When considering whether to stay or go in your marriage or long-term relationship, the agony is often palpable. I don’t believe anyone can answer this question for you, but a coach and/or therapist can help by asking you thoughtful questions ...
This one is all about telling your kids you’re getting a divorce. Ask Divorce Coach is Women’s Divorce Coach’s divorce advice column. Have a question Send it to Cindy here. It’s anonymous! Dear Divorce Coach, I decided years ago...
